The older in age I became, the wiser I became. I learned to separate facts from feelings. Feelings are the things that will get to your head and cause you to make irrational decisions. Facts are the things that make you look at something logically and then make the best decision for you and your family. Memphis, Tennessee is one of those cities in which if you can make it and survive the woes of the city, then basically you can make it and survive anywhere. I know that statement sounds a bit cliché, but the upbringing in the city of Memphis is full of what we call slick talkers. A slick talker or fast talker is someone who is very charismatic in speech and is able without hesitation to manipulate a person or situation so the outcome will be in his/her favor; and the city is inundated with these types of personalities.